The God of All Comfort in Loss

“Jesus Wept.”  John 11:35

These two words comprise the shortest verse in the Bible but perhaps offer some of the greatest comfort.  As we well know, death is a reality of life.  No matter the circumstance, loss is felt deeply.  Death is never easy.  

Jesus felt it deeply too.  In John 11:14 we learn that Lazarus, a good friend of Jesus, had died.   Even though this death was for the purpose of God’s glory to be revealed in an amazing way, Jesus was moved with compassion when he saw the loved ones of Lazarus mourning his death.  He himself had loved Lazarus and was deeply grieved.  He wept.  Jesus easily could have said, “Come on guys, stop your crying and watch this!”  But he didn’t.  In the midst of pain, grief, and heartache Jesus cried with the mourners.  

Although I know the triumphant end to this story, this strikes me as a beautiful reminder that Jesus came to be our Emmanuel- God with us.  How unbelievably glorious it is that we have a Savior who knows what it is to be hungry, to be tempted, and to have loved and lost.  We have a Savior who cries with us in our time of grief.   

Jesus assures us later on in the book of John that he came to give us a peace that cannot be found in this world (John 14:27).  What a wonderful Savior.  He is present with us in times of loss and is the giver of an unparalleled peace.  In our grief, we can take our deepest comfort in the God who weeps with us, our Emmanuel.    

Questions: 1) How do you respond to death?  2) How can remembering Jesus is Emmanuel add comfort during a time of loss?  3)  How have you seen Jesus give you peace in the face of loss/grief? 

Dear God, thank you for being close to the brokenhearted.  We thank you that you draw near to us in times of loss, and we thank you for a Savior who knows what it is we feel.  We thank you in advance for the peace and comfort you will bring in times of grief.  Amen.   

Published by Nicole Byrum

Hello! I have been a therapist in the community mental health field for the last 13 years. During this time I have worked with numerous women in recovery from substance abuse. It was this work, along with my relationship with Jesus, that inspired me to write my first book, Remade: Living Free. I have found writing to be a joy and it is my aim through this website to continue to share my faith, insights, and hope with my readers. Some fun facts about me: I have been married for 15 years and have 2 children; I love to read, run and cook; Even though I have lived in Ohio for most of my life I am not a fan of cold weather!

2 thoughts on “The God of All Comfort in Loss

  1. Going through this illness with Craig has shown me just how much we can count on God being by our side. Sometimes I wish I could just touch someone and let them feel the peace that comes from knowing him: he came to give us a peace that cannot be found in this world (wonderful reference). Thank you for sharing this post.

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